Dating site messaging
By pointing out your hesitations, she’s bound to assume you’re an insecure person. If you feel so inclined to explain yourself, wait to do it when you’ve met in person — and be confident about your reasons for joining.The scenario: “I got a message that said ‘Obviously you’re cute, but I’m just having trouble believing that this is actually you because you seem too good to be true.A good rule of thumb: if you aren’t available for a date within 7 days of sending the message, don’t send it.
Bonus: you’ll find out if you truly want to message this person or if they’re just drawing you in with their physical appearance.
She is the founder of Mile High Mating, a website dedicated to helping people go on more dates, have more sex, and find more love in the Mile High City and beyond.
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Thus making an introduction easier and far less intimidating.
If rejection happens it’s not as personal or awkward (usually).